It’s finally your turn to plan the perfect wedding, but where’s a girl to begin? While you may have a lot of ideas about the type of wedding ceremony and reception you’re hoping to plan, you’re bound to get overwhelmed without a clear plan of attack. These ten tips will help set you on your way to planning a fabulous wedding day that you and your soon-to-be groom will cherish forever.
1. Start with a Mind Dump
Whether it’s from little girl dreams tucked away in a crevice of your imagination or enough cracks at being a bridesmaid to add some credentials after your name, every bride begins to plan her wedding with some ideas of what would make the perfect day. So start your creative juices flowing with a gold ‘ol brainstorm session where you jot down every possible idea you’d like to see for your reception and ceremony. While you’re at it, you can even add ideas for your bridal shower, rehearsal and honeymoon.
2. Create a Detailed Budget
Once you’ve had a chance to be fanciful with a lengthy list of ideas, it’s time to move towards reality by creating a detailed budget. Make sure to include those who will actually be footing the bill, even if it’s just to get their final okay on the total. There’s nothing that’s more of a wedding killjoy than running out of dough part way into the planning. Having a budget will help you narrow down your list of hopeful ideas into a manageable list of to do’s.
3. Develop a Checklist
There are plenty of wedding planning websites and books that can help you develop a checklist of to do’s that will be just right for your needs. Since no two weddings are the same, and your plans will be modified along the way, make sure you can change this list over time.
4. Call in the Troops
The quickest path to becoming Bridezilla is to try tackling every part of wedding planning on your own. Get your posse of bridesmaids and family members who want to help together to sort out who can assist with each area of coordinating your big day. SignUpGenius provides great wedding templates. In minutes, you’ll be able to create a sign up with different responsibilities for your crew to volunteer for.
Organize help from family and friends to help plan your wedding. SAMPLE
6. Start with the Big, End with the small
Focus on the big areas like setting a budget, securing a ceremony and reception location, and creating a guest list first. These significant decisions will help narrow down a lot of the smaller ones, and you’ll feel like you have more breathing room to plan once they’re out of the way.
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8. Use Technology
It’s hard to remember what it was like to plan a wedding before the internet. You now have at your fingertips online wedding planning systems, search engines, and social media to check out recommendations and run ideas by friends. Don’t forget SignUpGenius where you can organize everything for your wedding from a group of volunteers to help with your bridal shower to a set up and take down crew for the reception.
Coordinate a bridal shower with a sign up. SAMPLE
10. Remember What’s Important
Friends and family may recall what a fabulous wedding you planned for all of a couple of weeks, but what needs to last a lot longer is your marriage. So when you’re tempted to freak out at your fiancé for forgetting the meeting with the florist, take a moment to breathe and remember that your love for him is the reason you’re planning the wedding in the first place.